Still Pregnant...

Here she is! Hard to believe she's almost here...

The plan is to call the hospital early tomorrow morning, and if they have "room" they'll take me. If all the beds are full, then we'll have to wait until later on Thursday or possibly even Friday. I'm really ok with that--I'm not feeling super anxious or anything. Don't get me wrong, I'm ready to meet this little one, but at this point, what's one more day?

My friend Shelia told me that June 1 would be a great birthday because it's 06/01/07 and 6+1=7. Then she said that the 31st would work too, because 5+3-1=7 also. She's a former math teacher and her mind just works like that. I'm game for whatever. :) I'm just glad to know she'll have a "cool" birthday.

It's amazing to me when you get this far along in your pregnancy how everyone wants to know what your body is doing. I know that is just part of it all, and it's really normally just women who want to know how much you are dialeted (2-3 cm) and effaced (50%), but it's kind of funny, isn't it? I'm mean, seriously, you would NEVER dream about discussing things like this with aquaintances unless you are about to give birth. People are asking Hubby about it also, which makes him a little uncomfortable. I believe his words were, "My wife's cervix is really none of their business." I laughed pretty hard at that...people are sweet and just want to know. I appreciate the sentiment.

At least I'm not getting comments daily from strangers on the street like Nancy is...you need to write some of those down, girl. (Didn't one guy point at you and nudge his wife as if to say, "Hey! Look at that!"

Ok, so I'm going to go pack my bags and run some last minute errands before tomorrow. I can't believe it's almost time...

Maybe we can post pictures from the hospital. I hear this new swanky one where I'm delivering has a wireless connection.

Baby Update

Just wanted to let all of you know that I'm still pregnant. I'll be 39 weeks on Saturday...whew. Sometimes I feel like this pregnancy has gone by so fast, and other times I feel like I've been pregnant FOREVER...(only 30 out of the last 48 months, but who's counting?)

I'm feeling good for the most part and, despite what the scale says, I'm not "huge." I mean, I'm big, but not like I was with pregnancy #1. My doctor is GREAT and is keeping an eye on this baby girl. I've had a biophysical profile every week since week 36, plus ultrasounds. She is measuring a little "small." Three weeks ago she was 5 lb, 12 oz according to the ultrasound measurements. I know for most people that is normal size, but with my history, that's little. ;) I don't mind, really. She can be a pipsqueak.

People keep saying, "Do you have a name yet?" They know I'm not going to tell, because we always keep it a secret, but they are just curious if we've decided or not yet. G Money has decided that her name will be Clarabel after the car Thomas the train pulls. I can tell you her name is NOT Clarabel. I hate to disappoint the little guy...so we've been working on it with him. We haven't decided for sure what her name is, so we've just decided to take the 4 or so names that we love to the hospital and decide then. We'll see what mood strikes. :)

Unless she comes before, we are scheduled for induction on Thursday the 31st!! HOORAY!! I happen to like being induced...I know it is different every time, but it has worked GREAT for my body the last 2 babies, so I'm happy to do it again. It's so nice to know my mom will already be here and the boys will be settled with her. Of course, I can only plan so much. I know God's plans are much, much bigger than my own. This baby might come on her own tomorrow. I don't know what I'd do...but we'd get through.

So, there's the update for all of you who want it. I'll get those nursery pictures up soon. It's still a work in progress...

Another burden lifted...

So, a friend showed up at the door today with two HUGE bags of baby girl clothes, size 0-6 months. They are ALL darling and in great condition. What a surprise and such a blessing for us. Thanks, KIM!!! (That is Kim from the am show on Q102, by the way.)

Bear one another's burdens...

Galatians 6:2
"Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."

We had a great discussion last night at Bible Study about this verse. I've been so thankful for the women who have come every week for the last 4 months or so...I've learned so much from them. It's just been good to have a group of women together who are in all different walks of life, and who desire to grow in their walk with God. It's been a sweet time. Next week is our last week, and I'm gonna miss it!

Tim Keller talked about bearing burdens like this: "To help with a burden, one must come very close to the burdened person, standing virtually in their shoes, and putting one's own strength under the burden so its weight is distributed on both of you, lightening the load of the other. So in the same way, a Christian must listen and understand, and physically, emotionally, spiritually, take up some of the burden with the other person."

So, I've been thinking about people in my life who help me bear my burdens. It's fun to think about it--and inspiring at the same time. For example, yesterday afternoon I'd missed my nap (I think I'm missing it again today...) and I was laying on the couch thinking, "I'm not going to make it two more weeks." Both of the boys were running circles around me, and I had just hit a wall. The phone rang and it was my neighbor (a SAINT) asking if I wanted some of their "extra dinner" from the crock pot. She didn't even know how badly I needed someone to take care of me. She was just thinking FOR me. I have a lot of friends in my life who are good at that--they think for others and anticipate needs. Another dear friend called me a few weeks ago before a huge garage sale. She told me to bring the boys over in their pjs so she could feed them breakfast while I shopped. She just anticipated what I needed--I don't even think I knew I needed that.

More burdens lifted...
The countless hours dear, dear women give to my family in free babysitting so my husband and I can connect on a weekly basis. We've come to realize how desperately we need our date night--and our kids LOVE when these ladies come to play. (I think they like it, too.)

Friends coming over to help paint the boys' new room, and then taking over when I could do no more...another burden lifted.

Someone coming over weekly to help get coffee ready for Bible study so I can put the boys to bed uninterrupted.

Someone asking me how I'm doing--and really wanting to know the answer.

A friend calling me and telling me I'm missed.

Someone praying for me.

I want to be more intentional in my relationships. I want to actively think FOR people--how can I help lift their burdens? How can I better love others? How can I teach my children to think for others as well? I know a lot of it is responding to the Holy Spirit prompting your heart, but as we said last night, there is action required. I can't just sit around and wait and hope that I'll "feel the urge" to serve. I need to be proactive and seek out opportunities.

So...those are my thoughts today. Just thought I'd share.

These are my sweet friends, Sam and Christina, who came to paint the boys' new room...they are awesome.

Daniel's old nursery...baby blue, anyone? I'll post the boys' new room soon...(and the new nursery!)

Galatians 6:2
"Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."

Family Picture

Do you know how hard it is to get a picture where 2 squirrelly boys are relatively still? Somehow, we managed. This is our most recent family picture and probably the last one for a while--at least for a month or so. I'm not letting a camera anywhere near me from now until this baby arrives. Cameras really do add 10 extra pounds, right? :) To quote Evelyn, I am "GLORIOUSLY PREGNANT."

Watch out world.

I realized yesterday as I was driving home from the airport that I'm a little more on edge these days. I actually honked at a driver on Powers who wouldn't move over so my minivan could merge. VERY unlike me...the best (worst?) part was my reaction when I passed him later and he honked back. I was ready to pull over and show him my prego self and fight the old man. MAN...I'm on edge. I think I need to have a baby.

We've got about 4 weeks left, friends. Maybe I'll have time to blog a couple more times before she arrives. :)

Nana and Caudy's visit

Well, I don't want all of you out there to worry about me too much. That last post was written in a moment of desperation, and reinforcements ARE coming. We actually had some just this past week. Nana and her sister "Caudy" came to visit and we has such a great time with them! We had great plans of getting TONS accomplished, and we did get some of it done, so that's good. I'm crossing things off the list little by little. Here are some shots of our time together...

Heavy D hamming it up

G Money at the park

The boys in the new double stroller (baby gift from Nana and Claudia).

We went to Boulder for the day...

Hubby and Heavy D on the Pearl St. Mall in Boulder.

My mom is coming for 2 weeks right after Baby Girl arrives. After she leaves, Nana will return for 2 weeks. Then, we have MORE family coming throughout the summer...right guys?? Anyone else? I'm taking applications...we have time shares in the tri-level available.

My Easter Buns

Shin posted pictures she took of Heavy D on Easter...I was uninspired by our snowy weather and didn't want to get the camera out. It doesn't help that I REALLY wanted to put my boys in their cute Easter outfits, but that doesn't happen out here in CO when it is 25 degrees and snowing...SO, I'll post those when I do put them on and am inspired to get out the camera.

Heavy D did look cute in his sweater vest and tie (thank you, Lisa) and I'm glad he can finally fit into it. He thought he was big stuff, let me tell you.

Today we met a friend for lunch at Chic-Fil-A and had a great time. Heavy D got a balloon, which made him happy the entire lunch date and G Money wanted to play in the play area after our friend had to leave. So, we played for a while and then things just went downhill.

First of all,

G got claustrophobic in the slide and COMPLETELY lost it—I couldn’t go up to get him (I’m too big), and he couldn’t come down. Finally, the other kids cleared out and he came down the slide.

G spilled the milkshake all over the floor while I’m wrestling a screaming D on the way out of the play area. SO…green milkshake all over the floor RIGHT in front of the door into the play area…a complete stranger took pity on me, grabbed a bunch of napkins and bent over and cleaned it up while I got help from a staff member.

D continues the wrestling match with prego mommy and the green balloon all the way out of the restaurant and into the parking lot. (More sympathetic looks from complete strangers. One woman even dared to ask, "When is your next one due?") When he finally got his way (holding the balloon without any help) he is in the car seat and G is in the back of the van crying, “I want my DADDY!!!”

Me too, G.

HOW AM I GOING TO DO THIS WITH THREE?!?!?!??!!

I’m having a moment…

This is why, when people ask me that above question...I just say, "I'm not thinking about it. I'm just going to have to take it one day at a time."

From the mouth of the three-year-old...

On our way into church this morning, we walked past the choir as they were going upstairs to the sanctuary. G Money said, "Mommy! Where are all those astronauts going?!"

G Money was very proud of his coloring pictures after church today. One was of the cross with a man standing in front of it looking very happy. On the ground beside him was his backpack, like he had been freed from his heavy burden of sin. Well, during lunch we were with a group of friends at T and S's home and someone asked G what he learned in Sunday School. He said, "We learned about Jesus wearing a backpack. When he got to the cross, he laid his heavy burden down!" Close, G Money, but not quite.

Excitement in the Neighborhood

When I stepped outside this afternoon, I thought I smelled someone burning leaves. Being the sister-in-law of a firefighter, I thought that was unusual and possibly even illegal here in our town. I called Hubby on the phone and asked if he had seen anything unusual on his way out of the neighborhood, and he said, "No, but there are a bunch of firetrucks coming this way." I told him I thought they'd be heading to our neighborhood, and I was right. We could see the flames and smoke from our driveway moments later. A house 2 streets over was burning, and our very own Uncle Todd was able to be there. G money and Hubby walked up a little while later to check things out. It was definitely the highlight of their day!

AFA Basketball!!

G Money attended his first college basketball game with his Daddy a few weeks ago. The highlights? Seeing the Falcon up close and drinking lemonade. He also loved his hot dog, the band, the big boy potties, and I'm sure he enjoyed a little of the game...

He actually fell asleep in the car on the way home...I don't know the last time that happened.

Heavy D's Verbal Skills

Heavy D's "excited face"

G Money's PBJ art (aren't you impressed, Pops?)

Last night, as I was getting the kids dinner ready, I heard this little voice from the high chair say, "Pipa!" "Pipa!" Very emphatically, I might add. Who told him we were having pizza?

Today, as I walked into Target pushing Heavy D in the cart, G Money riding on the back, and baby girl making her ever-growing presence known, Heavy D starts saying "cookie!" "cookie!" over and over...so what do I do? I steer RIGHT FOR the bakery to get both of them cookies. I never thought I'd be that desperate--I was so into feeding them healthy, a cookie before lunch would have never crossed my mind. Not anymore. My theory is keep 'em happy for as long as possible in public places.

On the way home from Target, I hear "ta-duck" from the back seat. He already knows what a trash truck is and has been instructed in their purposes by his big brother.

While I was at Target, I found something VERY EXCITING. (at least, for me.) I have this secret love of Cadbury creme eggs...I used to buy them up after Easter and stick them in the freezer to have for months on end. Pretty sick, I know. Hubby can't stand them, so they are all mine. :) Well, today I found MINI Cadbury Creme Eggs--you can buy them by the dozen! And they are so cute and little that you don't feel guilty at all about eating 2 in a row. :) Yum.

G Money is THREE!!

We celebrated G Money's 3rd Birthday on Monday, complete with airplane cake and balloons. He had such a great time. I learned a lot about planning a three year old birthday party from a friend of mine last October. She has 5 kids and knows what she is doing. SO, I totally copied her...(thanks, Karyn!) The party started at one, ended at two and consisted of cake, presents, and playing outside. Thankfully, it was the first pretty day we have had in a LONG time, so the three little boys had a great time riding cars in the driveway. LOW KEY is the way to go!!

Of course, G loved his cake and had to work to get those candles out. He worked HARD...

EFFORT, as Aunt S calls it. Quite appropriate.

We had been telling him that after he blew out the candles he could eat his cake. SO, once they were finally blown out, he leaned down and took a bite! I think that's a fun tradition we might have to start.

This week...the unexpected guest

I posted on the Baker family site that we were hit with the stomach bug this week. Hubby and I were sick on Monday (isn't it against some law of nature for BOTH parents to have the stomach bug on the same day? Especially when there are no grandparents in town...) and he wasn't fully better until Thursday. Mine seemed to just last for 24 hours, and thankfully, that's what got passed on to the boys.

G Money woke up on Thursday morning and I went into his room and said, "Oh, HOney, what happened?" He said, "Look Mommy, I puked in my bed!"
"G, you need to tell me when this happens next time." I said, wondering how long the puke had been there.
He said, "I was just telling Yellow Bear about it."

Great.

I thought it was all over with until I woke up this morning to the smell of vomit in my house. (YES, the ENTIRE house smelled.) I found HEavy D smiling in his bed SURROUNDED by the stuff. It was awful---he won the award for the smelliest and the largest quantity.

Sigh.

Dog joined Yellow Bear in the wash. They both needed it, I'm sure.

Christmas Morning Stockings

I know this is WAY late, but I thought I'd go ahead and post these pictures for Grandparents anyway. :) Thanks Oma for the great stockings, and thanks Nana for the cute matching pj's. The boys had a great Christmas!

Surprise, surprise!!

We had our ultrasound yesterday...I'm already almost 20 weeks--can you believe it?? And we got some fun, VERY SURPRISING news! We're gonna have a baby girl! I went from super exctied to super scared in about 30 minutes. I'm back to super exctied because I reminded myself that little girls don't come out as hormonal 13 year olds. I just remember how I was at that age...scary stuff.


These flowers are what my sister brought to the resturaunt last night to let my parents know they are having their first granddaughter. I was on the phone with mom and it was SO FUN to hear her reaction. I just wish I could've been there to see it. I had a moment...missing home and family and important occasions to celebrate together. I know I am right where I need to be, but sometimes, on occasions like this, I wish I could just hop on a plane and be there.


What are we going to do with a GIRL?!?!?!? It's going to be so much fun...

First Haircut

We have a dear family friend who brought us a Christmas tree this year. Mrs. Donna was replacing her artificial tree with a newer model, so she passed it on to us. I never thought I'd have an artificial tree (I had a bad experience with one as a child) but let me tell you that it was really nice. It went up so quickly without any maritial stife and came down just as easily.

Before Mrs. Donna arrived I thought I might take Daniel to get a haircut. Daniel was in DESPERATE need of a haircut--his mullet was out of control. I had been putting it off because I really wanted someone special to give him his first haircut. (Aunt S offered, but I was a little hesitant. She hasn't been trained to cut hair.) So, I was just going to bite the bullet and go to Kiddie Kutters and get it cut. I strapped the boys in the stroller and we started walking. Well, about 1/2 way there I thought, I wonder what time Donna's study at church is over. I called the church and she was already finished, so we turned around to go home and wait. I resigned myself to the mullet for another day.

(Heavy D's mullet)

So, Mrs. Donna arrived and we started putting up the tree. As we were stringing lights, she was telling me her life story and casually said, "I was working and doing pretty well for myself before I got married." I said, "Donna, what did you do?" She said, "I was a hairdresser."

I about fell over. Isn't God good to give us someone we love to do this? It was such a sweet little gift for all of us. Mrs. Donna was THRILLED and so was I. Heavy D looks like such a big boy now!!

I'm Mullet-Free!!

The clencher of the whole day was G Money taking an extra pair of scissors off the counter and cutting HIS hair. Fortunately, it was in a place that was not noticable. I just had to laugh...

Some thoughts on Christmas Cards

Well, my Christmas cards are addressed, stamped and (almost) sealed. They have been written for weeks, the pictures have been printed for weeks, and yet...they are not finished. I wish I could use the excuse that the BLIZZARD closed the post office for two days (which it did), but I can't. I just have too much going on. I think next year I'm not even going to try to get these things out before Christmas. Plan on it being a New Year's letter. My mom used to do Valentine's Day letters. Now that's a thought...

Things I have gotten accomplished?
Well, I'm done baking (except for Granny's fruitcake--yum), the gifts are bought and wrapped (except for just a couple) and all our decorations are up (except the cute stockings mom made--I'm still waiting on my stocking hangers to be shipped.) And I've been able to spend LOTS of time with my children, which is always fun. G Money helped decorate cookies this week and Heavy D is teaching himself how to walk (he doesn't need my help, after all. :)) I'm really excited about just having a quiet Christmas here in snowy CO. I've never had a white Christmas before...kind of fun.

And for those of you who are anxiously awaiting your cards (ha, ha, ha), here is a preview of the picture and hopefully you'll get it sometime next week.

some news...

I think most of you already know this, but I've been really bad about sending out update emails, so I really don't know if the word has spread. We are going to become 5 in June. That's right! We got a bun in the oven. I know, it's still hard for us to believe, too. We are excited to meet this new little one when the time comes...but for now, I've got my hands full. GOOD TIMES!

For those of you who like details, the due date is June 2 and we found out around our birthdays (happy 30th birthday to us). Heavy D and this one will be 18 months apart and G money will be almost 3 1/2 when the baby comes. It's going to be FUN! :) (Mom, go ahead and block out the end of May until mid June when Nancy's baby arrives. I'm gonna need you...)

Happy Birthday, Heavy D!!

We celebrated Heavy D's first birthday yesterday...my, how time flies!
Kudos to S for her photography...

 

Halloween

Still trying to catch up...Here are my two pilots on Halloween. Heavy D just cracks me up in that costume.

Heavy D--11 months now!

Heavy D really wanted to play outside in the snow with his brother, but he had to watch from the window with Oma.

More Fun in the Snow

I know I posted a while ago that we were having the house painted...here is the finished product. We are still hoping to get shutters that match the trim, but it hasn't happened yet. Can I just say I LOVE having that yellow brick painted?!



G Money enjoyed falling back into huge drifts of snow and just lying there.

Nothing quite fits right, but that sure makes it cute, doesn't it?

The Blizzard

I know I'm super late blogging these pictures, but I'm still in catch-up mode. We woke up to this a few Thursdays ago! Where I'm from, it doesn't snow until January or February, so I'm still trying to get used to this. The best part was that it was pretty much all gone within a few days. Love that CO sunshine!



G Money watching his daddy shovel the driveway. Our neighbors measured 14 inches on their back deck!